13 Genuine Signs He Wants To Spend His Life With You
When a man wants to spend his life with you, he will show it.
If you’re in a relationship and wondering if your partner wants to take things to the next level, you’re in the right place.
Let’s talk about the signs that show he’s ready to spend his life with you.
But first, a little back story
Several months into our relationship, I started noticing little signs that John wanted to move forward.
He didn’t have a car, so he would ride the bus with me to my nearest and safest bus stop, just to make sure I was safe.
While I enjoyed the extra time with him, I knew there was more to it.
Then one day, as I was boarding my last bus, he asked how I’d like to be his Mrs.
Not long after that, we moved in together.
And the rest is history.
Now, let’s dive into clear signs that a man wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
13 Signs he wants to spend his life with you
When a guy wants to marry you, you would know.
He won’t keep you guessing or playing mind tricks.
He would do these:
1. He makes plans with you in mind
When a man wants to spend his life with you, he often includes you in his future plans.
I remember searching for an apartment with my husband, and he considered the distance from my job, among other things.
When he talks about the future, he uses “we” and “us.”
2. He wants to move in together
If he asks you to move in with him, it can be a big sign.
It means he’s ready to take your relationship to the next level.
After John got his apartment, he asked me to move in with him.
And we lived together for months before getting married.
3. He resolves issues instead of running away
A man who wants to marry you will work through problems rather than run away.
He’ll ensure you both are on good terms because he doesn’t want to lose you over an argument.
4. He introduces you to his family
Meeting the family is a significant step.
If he introduces you to his family, he’s serious about you.
My boyfriend told his family about me before I met them.
And that Christmas, I met everyone.
5. He always wants to be with you
If he misses you more than before and changes plans just to spend more time with you, it’s a good sign.
6. You are the only thing he sees
A man who plans to spend his life with you isn’t interested in other women.
They don’t exist to him.
7. He says he wants to marry you
When a guy wants to spend his life with you, he talks about marriage.
He wouldn’t say, “Okay, we’ll get married if that’s what you want.”
John and I had discussed getting married several times before he proposed, so I knew where I stood with him.
8. He wants to meet your family
A guy who wants to move the relationship forward will ask to meet your family.
He’s not scared to know your folks and earn their respect.
So they know you’re in good hands.
9. He has your back
Your problems become his problems.
He’ll make you feel comfortable talking about your dreams and fears.
And he’ll help you out because your problems are now “our problems.”
10. He discusses long-term plans with you
If he includes you in his long-term plans, it’s a sign he wants to settle down with you.
You’ll discuss careers, house buying, and other future plans together.
11. He’s very comfortable with you
When your boyfriend gets more comfortable and vulnerable with you, it’s a sign he wants a future with you.
Once, John and I spent a whole day together in our tiny apartment.
We were together, comfortable, and not bored of each other.
And it’s been the same way even until now.
He said that day confirmed he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.
12. He holds you more
A guy who wants to marry you will touch or hold you more.
He makes you feel like you are his, and there will be lots of hugs, kisses, and other forms of intimacy.
13. You become his top priority
A guy who wants to spend his life with you makes you his top priority.
His actions will show how important you are to him.
Signs he doesn’t want to spend his life with you.
On the flip side, here are some signs he might not be serious about you:
- He avoids marriage discussions and gets defensive when you mention it.
- He makes excuses and puts off wedding plans.
- You never meet his family or friends.
- He makes a big deal about you leaving things at his place.
- He uses family traditions as an excuse not to marry you.
Conclusion on signs he wants to spend his life with you
There you have it, 13 signs a guy wants to spend his life with you.
He’ll show it in his actions and tell you he wants to be with you.
If you’re in a long-term relationship and seeing these signs, that’s great!
But if not, it’s okay to let go.
Keep your heart and mind open, and the right person will come along.
All the best.
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